File manager resets to top of folder. Can anyone help?

Hi!
When using MS Explore File Manager i have a file marked, I go to a
different window, do what ever and come back to Explore. The program has
reset itself to the first file in the folder, not the one i had it on. Is
there any way to stop this from happening. This does this on my computer at
home also. With 6000 files in the folder, to have it reset all the time
and having to go back to where i was all the time is tedious

Microsoft Windows XP Professional
Version: 5.1.2600
Service Pack: 3.0

Thanks