New Year - New Project

Well, Happy 2006 people.
I'm on a Fury fist flurry Warrior hiatus currently. Pick up groups
being the bane of my existance.

Now, My new project. The Perfect Paladin.
Ok, First off, I understand that a Paladin is supposed to be a support
wiener. No Healing, No DPS, but as much Tankination as possible.
That in mind,I wish to be the char where the line is drawn. None shall
pass etc.

The problem. I have no Idea how to do this. I build everything to be
as hostile as physically capable usually, but I realise this isn't
going to work for this. Does anyone know what the best talent build is
for this kind of Pala. I want to be able to take and hold aggro, and
not die doing it.